How to Find Swingers

Some tips for how to find swingers in Akron Ohio. You want this to be an exciting adventure, but also safe and discrete. If you a couple, single female (unicorn), or single male as the process and hence “safest” way varies. One thing to try right away: search meetup.com for Akron Ohio area swinger's clubs. It's safe to say everyone there is there for the same reasons. Another common method is online sites like the one featured in the banner. There are many dating sites on the internet but some are focused just on swingers. If you stick with couple/singles that are PAID and have verifications from others, you will be ok. You're able to "shop around" without losing your anonymity. Always use common sense, keep all correspondence on the site and don't revel ph # or emails until you actually meet. Yes, they ask you cough up some money to be a paid member. It lends credibility and it's worth it in the long run. Then there are the basic rules of swinging. Yes, there are rules and they vary, with the exception of one -- no means no! Bet you're wondering about “when does the sex happen”? Again, it depends if you're out in public, a club, etc. many times we have agreed to meet and it was stated it was drinks and get to know each other. Sex then occurred on later dates or not at all if we weren't compatible Then again, sometimes it was daylight getting home! One side note, if you are a single female, start at a club or event. This way you have an organizer/security and other women around to endure your safety. Later as you learn the ropes you can branch out. Bottom line is making a point of learning the process and you can avoid pitfalls. If you have more questions let me know. ------------------------ Here are more basic tips on how to find Swingers: Start with generic social questions! What’s your favorite team? What church do you attend? What do you do for a living? Where do you live? Do you have children? How long have you been together? Where are you from? What do you do for recreation? Then throw this out there: “Are you two swingers?” Have to ask that question to get anywhere! “Are you two swingers?” Practice it. If they are shocked...so what? Act like it was just a joke, no big deal. Gotta ask 'em. But you don't ask them right away! Have to work up to "the question" in a natural way. But at some point, you have to at least let them know you're a swinger. There's no easier way. There’s got to be an easier way? Well, Not if you're not at an expressly Akron Swingers social event. So get it in your head that if you meet a couple you like, you have to put it out there somehow that you're a swinger. Then work outward from that in a natural way. Like many other characteristics of the lifestyle, there is no easy button answer for this one nor should we expect to find one. Finding Swingers in Akron Ohio takes time, energy, patience, perseverance...but you can make it fun! The best goal is not to “find and have sex with” another couple, it’s to meet another couple, get to know them and see where things go. Use this method on many “non-lifestyle” vacations, trips or evenings out on the town. It starts with noticing a person or couple and discussing how attractive they are to us. Then one of us has to make the first move and introduce ourselves (the hard part). After that, we just start talking (the easy part). It always amazes me how others respond. Without exception, couples smile and engage in conversation. Sometimes it doesn’t last long but other times we end up making lifelong friends. While we have not “played” with any of these couples (yet) we still enjoy a similar social relationship to our lifestyle friendships. We talk, we laugh, we share, we don’t judge, we are vulnerable, open and honest (and there is usually physical chemistry). So instead of trying to find the easy button and have swingers “poof” appear before you because of what swinger paraphernalia you might be wearing, take the time necessary to reach out, start a dialogue and be open to where the conversation might go and where the relationship might lead. You never know, it might end up in the playroom! -------------------------------------------------------- You can find Cincinnati Swingers by just doing a Google search. That will bring you to specific Swingers clubs. One very helpful resources in Yelp.com, which always has a list of the top 10 Cincinnati Swingers clubs (or for wherever you are). But the safest way of finding Swingers is by using specialized swingers dating sites. You can provide a nickname instead of your real name and you can provide an alternative email and phone number - something you plan to use only for contacts within the lifestyle. There are several options to choose from, but you should stick to those with a proven reputation, such as the one on the banner of this site. There are some others, like SwingLiving, SpicyMatch, Swingee, LaRedSW, some are more focused in the Spanish speaking community, though.